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Friday, February 3, 2017

[chottala.com] Updates of Moni (Shahed's wife) as of 02-03-17. Moni is in a rehab center in Maryland now, but her doctors won't allow any visitors at least till 13th February.



The following describes the updates of Tauhida Chowdhury "Moni" (Shahed's wife) as of 02-03-17.


Alhamdulillah, Moni finally moved to Maryland, but not to her home yet.  Moni is in Althea Woodland Nursing Home, Room 12, 1000 Daleview Drive, Silver Spring, Maryland 20901.  Other than immediate family members, no visitors are allowed to see her at least till 13th February.  So, please do not plan to see Moni until you get clearance from her husband Shahed or any immediate family members.  


I am already out of country right now for official duty mission and I am sending this email from overseas.  So, I cannot tell you any details more than what I described above about Moni.  I will be back to USA on 12th or 13th February, Insha Allah.


Even you cannot see Moni right now, but you can talk to her over cell phone if she is awake at the time of your call.  I do not have Moni's or Shahed's number handy with me at this time, because I am in a job site now.  You may find their numbers from someone locally.  But, if you call Moni directly, Shahed will most likely answer your phone call first, then he can give phone to Moni, if she can talk.

MAHFUZUR  RAHMAN
6524 Ivy Terrace
Elkridge,  Maryland 21075
USA
Telephones: 410-796-0577 (home); 301-646-3475 (cell); 703-875-4054 (work)
bangalibhai@hotmail.com
bangalibhai1@gmail.com



From: Mahfuzur Rahman <bangalibhai@hotmail.com>
Sent: Thursday, January 12, 2017 2:45 PM
Subject: Updates of Moni (Shahed's wife) as of 01-12-17. Moni (Ayaz Bhabi & Jolly Bhabi's youngest brother's wife) is in a hospital in Florida since 01-02-17 due to serious injury from deadly car crash on I-95.
 

The following describes the updates of Tauhida Chowdhury "Moni" (Shahed's wife) as of 01-12-17.


Alhamdulillah, Moni's condition is much better now than what we have been hearing for the last few days.  The surgery on her right hand completed on the day before yesterday and it was successful, although doctors took almost 8 hours due to few very bad injuries inside right hand.  The plastic surgery on her face completed yesterday and it was also successful.  The results of MRI shows very good results.  Doctors do not predict any more surgeries on her, unless any side effects or minor complications may arise later.  Moni will be transferred from ICU to general patient ward sometime tomorrow.  Moni still has a long way to go towards complete recovery & healing.  Specially, she needs many weeks of therapy and rehabilitation process.  


The condition of Mr. Emdadul Hossain (Moni's niece's husband) is much better now.  He will probably be released very soon from hospital.


Because Moni's condition is not critical now and she is moving towards good condition by the Mercy of Almighty Allah, I am not going to send these kind of frequent emails to you for informing Moni's status.  Insha Allah, when Moni is ready to move to Maryland, I will send email to you at that time to let you know that Moni is physically near us.  Till then, let's continue to pray to Almighty Allah for Moni's very soon & successful recovery.  May Allah show Moni's beautiful appearance and perfect health to us very soon.  Let's increase our individual dua from our heart rather than waiting for any group dua gathering, because individual dua has much more probability of acceptance than group dua.


MAHFUZUR  RAHMAN

6524 Ivy Terrace
Elkridge,  Maryland 21075
 410-796-0577 (home); 301-646-3475 (cell); 703-875-4054 (work)
bangalibhai@hotmail.com
bangalibhai1@gmail.com


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From: Mahfuzur Rahman <bangalibhai@hotmail.com>
Sent: Sunday, January 8, 2017 2:04 PM
Subject: Updates of Moni (Shahed's wife) as of 01-08-17. Moni (Ayaz Bhabi & Jolly Bhabi's youngest brother's wife) is in a hospital in Florida since 01-02-17 due to serious injury from deadly car crash on I-95.
 

The following describes the updates of Tauhida Chowdhury "Moni" (Shahed's wife) as of 01-08-17.


Although Moni is still inside ICU, but doctors removed Moni's all life support equipment last night.  So, she no longer needs any life support equipment.  She can talk softly now, although doctors highly discouraged her to talk other than emergency needs.  She can totally see & understand now.  Hospital is providing liquid type food to her.  Doctors will perform surgery on her entire right hand tomorrow, Monday.  By the way, the worst damage & injury took place on her right hand.  Doctors will also perform plastic surgery on her face tomorrow, Monday.  We may not be able to know the correct results of her right hand surgery and facial plastic surgery before Tuesday.  Doctors will also do MRI on her other body parts tomorrow morning to determine whether or not other body parts need any more surgery.  If the other body parts do not need any more surgery and if the surgery on her right hand becomes successful tomorrow, then we can assume that her life threatening injuries are out of danger for now by the Mercy of Allah.  Moni still has a long way to go towards complete recovery.


The condition of Mr. Emdadul Hossain (Moni's niece's husband) is much better now.  He is outside of ICU now, he is residing in general patient ward.  He will probably be released much sooner than Moni.   


I am sorry that I gave one wrong information to you in my last email.  I mentioned that the accident took place e car was passing Jacksonville area around 2:00 AM on 2nd January.  The accident actually took place around 2:00 PM (not 2:00 AM).  Some people gave me wrong information about the timing.


The Janazah prayer and the burial of the two deceased (Mrs. Nazia Hossain and her 4 year old son Ayaaan Haque) took place smoothly after Jummah prayer on Friday at Jacksonville, Florida.  Shahed (Moni's husband) was able to attend in both Janazah prayer & burial.  But, Mr. Emdadul Hossain (Nazia's husband) was not able to go to Janazah prayer & burial, because he is not still in the stage of free move & walk. 


Let's continue to pray to Almighty Allah for Moni's very soon & successful recovery.  May Allah show Moni's beautiful appearance and perfect health to us very soon.  Let's increase our individual dua from our heart rather than waiting for any group dua gathering, because individual dua has much more probability of acceptance than group dua.


MAHFUZUR  RAHMAN

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From: Mahfuzur Rahman <bangalibhai@hotmail.com>
Sent: Friday, January 6, 2017 11:08 AM
Subject: Updates of Moni (Shahed's wife) as of 01-06-17. Moni (Ayaz Bhabi & Jolly Bhabi's youngest brother's wife) is in a hospital in Florida since 01-02-17 due to serious injury from deadly car crash on I-95.
 

The following describes the updates of Tauhida Chowdhury "Moni" (Shahed's wife) as of 01-06-17.


When Moni has been admitted in hospital after crash, doctor took couple of days mainly to do surgery on Moni's head & face to bring head & face in normal condition.  Right now, her head, brain, & face is safe condition.  Yesterday, doctors performed surgery for 5 hours on two places on her leg leg (thigh & under knee), left side of chest, and under elbow on right hand.  Per Shahed's report, those surgery were successful.  However, bone injury above elbow on right hand is so shattered & dangerous that doctors did not perform surgery above elbow on right hand yesterday.  Doctors said that they will perform that surgery on Monday.  When Shahed asked them why they have to wait till Monday for this surgery, doctors said that they want other body parts to become stabilized before they touch her right arm.  If the doctors do surgery on right hand now, it may have some impact on her brain & heart.  Shahed did not want to see her such condition till Monday, but doctors know better what they have to do.  However, Moni is a little more responsive today, she is able to squeeze hands, and she is able to scribble more writings on notepad.  Her eyes are looking wide & better and she can freely open & close them now.  In summary, Moni still has long way to go.    


The condition of Mr. Emdadul Hossain (Moni's niece's husband) is much better now.  All surgeries on him are complete.  Doctors kept him sitting on bed.  He is in stable stage.  He can see, talk, and understand now.  Although doctors unofficially declared him fully out of danger, but he still needs lots more treatments in hospital for few more days.  He described the crash situation as following.  They left their home in Florida little after 12:00 midnight towards Washington DC.  When the car was passing Jacksonville area around 2:00 AM, all passengers were sleeping.  The deceased driver (Nazia Hossain) most likely dosed off or felt sleepy just a second before crash.  


The hospital & police released the dead bodies of Nazia Hossain and her 4 year old son last night.  Per Emdadul Hossain request, the Janazah prayer of two deceased persons will be held after Jumma prayer today at a mosque (masjid) in Jacksonville, Florida following by burial at a muslim cemetery also located in Jacksonville, FL.


We (most of Moni & Shahed's relatives & family friends) are residing in greater Washington DC area, that's why we are not able to do any physical help to them at this time due to long distance, but we are continuously praying to Almighty Allah for them.  However, we are very grateful to big Bangladeshi community of Jacksonville area, because they are continuously providing food & all daily needs to Shahed everyday as well as they are providing moral support & strength to Shahed everyday with their continuous visits.  They offered Shahed to sleep at their homes, but Shahed wants to stay in hospital for 24 hours.  He got a long reclining chair to sleep & sit next to Moni's bed.


MAHFUZUR  RAHMAN


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From: Mahfuzur Rahman <bangalibhai@hotmail.com>
Sent: Wednesday, January 4, 2017 8:13 AM
Subject: Updates of Moni (Shahed's wife) as of 01-04-17. Moni (Ayaz Bhabi & Jolly Bhabi's youngest brother's wife) is in a hospital in Florida since 01-02-17 due to serious injury from deadly car crash on I-95.
 

The following describes the updates of Moni (Shahed's wife) as of 01-04-17.


When a patient stays in ICU in hospital, he/she goes through following 3 stages before he/she is declared as stable: Coma with full life support, Critical with or without life support, and Unstable without life support.  When the patient is declared as Stable, then he/she is transferred from ICU to general ward or general room.  Moni was in Coma stage on 2nd & 3rd January.  On the first day, couple of major surgery took place on her.  By Almighty Allah's miraculous power and by your Dua, her stage changed from Coma to Critical last night, but she is still in life support now.  She has still lots of injuries throughout the body.  But, Alhamdu Lillah, she can hear, she can shake her head & face, and she can move her fingers right now.  When Shahed (Moni's husband) asks her any questions, she tries to write on a notepad, but the handwriting is not clearly understood (scribbled like).  Moni still cannot move her right hand and left leg at all, because both of them are severely fractured.  She has to go through long way before changing to Unstable stage, which means the her recovery will be a very slow process.  Doctors will do surgery on her right hand and left leg today.  


Moni's niece's husband is also in ICU, but he is not in as bad condition as Moni.  He is in Unstable stage.  


Until one of them will be able to talk clearly with full sense of understanding & memory, none of us can tell that what exactly happened just before the deadly crash.  For now, we do not need to know it.  We just pray to Almighty Allah for their very quick recovery and return to their own house.  If possible for you, please increase your Dua as more as possible.


Let's continue to remind ourselves that we need to look front, back, & sides constantly at each & every second while driving, need to keep enough distance between our car & the car in front of us as well as between our car & the car behind us, we must not use our cell phone for calling or texting or looking at Facebook during driving, and let's not look for any item in the glove compartment or in other places in the car while driving.  Road accidents everyday happens mainly from these situations.  


MAHFUZUR  RAHMAN
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From: Mahfuzur Rahman <bangalibhai@hotmail.com>
Sent: Tuesday, January 3, 2017 9:41 AM
Subject: Dua requested for Moni (Shahed's wife). She (Ayaz Bhabi & Jolly Bhabi's youngest brother's wife) is in a hospital in Florida now due to serious injury from deadly car crash on I-95.
 

http://www.news4jax.com/traffic/1-dead-3-seriously-injured-in-crash-on-i-95-near-igp

www.news4jax.com
One person was killed and three others, including a child, were seriously injured Monday afternoon when an SUV veered off Interstate 95, slammed into a tree and overturned, the St. Johns County Fire Rescue Department said.

Our family friend Moni (Shahed's wife) was admitted in a hospital located in Florida yesterday (January 2) for deadly injury took place from a serious car crash.  She is also Mrs. Ayaz Rahman & Mrs. Jolly Farhad's youngest brother's wife.  

Moni, her husband Shahed, and a big group of their relatives were returning from Florida in two vehicles after long holiday vacation.  Shahed was driving one car with 3 passengers.  Moni was sitting in another car (SUV) which had been driven by Moni's niece/bhagni (Nazia Hossain).  Besides Moni & driver, two other passengers were sitting in SUV (gray Infiniti FX35).  While the SUV was moving in high speed towards northbound on I-95 in Florida around 2:00 pm yesterday (2nd January), suddenly the SUV swerved off road, hit a tree very hard, and the SUV overturned & severely crashed.  Police, ambulance, helicopter, and fire truck arrived at the scene in a few minutes, then cut the SUV into few pieces to remove all passengers trapped inside.  Very unfortunately, the 32 year old driver Mrs. Nazia Hossain was pronounced dead on the spot and her 4 year old son Ayaan Haque died later after he was taken to nearest hospital.  Mrs. Nazia Hossain and her family are residents of Canada (Mississauga, Ontario).  They were in Florida for vacation along with Moni & Shahed.     

42 year old Moni and Mrs. Nazia Hossain's 37 year old husband were airlifted to Orange Park Medical Center in Florida.  Florida State Troopers said that Moni was seriously injured and Mrs. Nazia Hossain's husband suffered minor injuries.  Moni is still in ICU and she is in critical condition.  It is not known to the Florida Police at the time of an article posted in the internet (posted at 7:30 pm) as to why their car veered onto the east shoulder as they were traveling in the inside lane of northbound I-95.      

Please open the link given in the above and read more details of the tragic incident.  I described the facts in the above based on what I have been informed last night.  So far, I did not hear anything in this morning about any update of today.  

Please pray to Almighty Allah for Moni's very quick cure & recovery.  May Almighty Allah return Moni to her home in perfect healthy sick-free condition.  May Almighty Allah show us Moni's all time smiling & friendly appearance again very soon.  May Almighty Allah allow us to hear her normal lively voice with perfect physical condition again very soon.  May Allah give highest level of physical & mental strength to Shahed (Moni's husband) and her relatives to handle Moni's unbearable condition.  Ameen!   

I attached few Duas in the attachment as ell as in the following to relieve yourself as well as other sick persons from body pain.  All of these Duas are collected from very authentic Hadiths.
 
MAHFUZUR  RAHMAN
6524 Ivy Terrace
Elkridge,  Maryland 21075
410-646-3475 (home); 301-646-3475 (cell); 703-875-4054 (work)
bangalibhai@hotmail.com
bangalibhai1@gmail.com
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If you are sick:  Fatimah ® went to her father Muhammad (pbbuh) complaining of her hands blistering from grinding flour.  Muhammad (pbbuh) ordered to say 33 times Subhan Allah, 33 times Alhamdu Lillah, & 34times Allahu Akbar at the time of sleep to get relieved from pain. {Tirmidhi, vol 6, page 132-133, Had 3408-3409}.

If you are sick:  When Uthman bin Al-'As ® met Prophet Muhammad (pbbuh) due to a severe & unbearable pain in his body, Muhammad (pbbuh) said, "Say Bismillah 3 times , then say 'A'udhu be Izzatillahi wa Qudratihi was Sultanihi min Sharri ma ajidu wa uhaziru' {I seek refuge in Allah's Might, Power, and Authority, from the evil of what I suffer & fear} seven times while rubbing the painful area with your right hand seven times".   The companion did it, and Allah removed all pains from him. [see attachment "C"].  {Tirmidhi, vol 4, page 149, Had 2080} {Muslim summ., vol 2, page 767, #1447}

If you are very distress due to sickness or mental anxieties:  When Prophet Muhammad (pbbuh) was in distress for sickness or for any other reason, he would say: [see attachment B for Arabic version]  "There is none worthy of worship except Allah, the Forebearing, the Wise, There is none worthy of worship except Allah, the Lord of Magnificent Throne, There is none worthy of worship except Allah , the Lord of the heavens & the earth, and the Lord of the Noble Throne". {Tirmidhi, vol 6, page 164, Had 3435}

If you are sick or if you are visiting a sick person:  Whenever anybody became sick, Muhammad (pbbuh) recited Surah Falaq & Surah Nas and then blew breath over sick person or rub his hands over his body to remove sickness.    {Muslim summ., vol 2, page 766, #1446}


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Posted by: Mahfuzur Rahman <Bangalibhai@hotmail.com>


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